Don’t you love the holidays! It is the time when all the family gets together. You get to see all the relatives you haven’t seen in a year or two, and you get to catch up.
I used to dread it. It seemed no matter what progress in life I made, there was always something else that I should be doing. For example, when I was in college, it was; when are you going to graduate, or do you have any job opportunities lined up. These questions just kept being asked in one shape or form. After I started my career, they asked, when are you getting married or buying a house? Those last two questions always sounded like nails on a chalkboard with me. I would smile and walk away.
When I used to think about buying a home, I would think about all the money that I had foolishly spent instead of saving. I could not bring myself to admit to my family that I did not put away a percentage of my paycheck into savings. Sure, I had some money, but not enough for a 20% down payment.