You will want to consider to what level of uncleanliness is your breaking point. You want to make sure you think about your battles and to what level unorganized becomes filth. For example, if your roommate leaves a single dish in the sink and then cleans up later that day, is it worth confronting them over; or if they have been stacking them up all week into a heaving pile of moldy dishes worth a talk? Remember, you chose to live with this individual, so they have some characteristics you appreciate, and do not let something like this get in the way.
How to Handle a Messy Roommate
Living with a roommate can be a fun and exciting time in your life, but it can also have challenges. When you move into your new pad with your roommate, you might not consider their cleanliness situation until you realize firsthand that they do not pick up after themselves. This situation is a very common situation among roommates. Do not let this issue become problematic; try these tips to help you resolve the conflict before it becomes too late.
Choose Your Battles
Confront Your Roommate
Set Common Areas
Clean Together
Create a Chore List
Hire a Cleaning Service
Living with a roommate will prepare you for future relationships and marriage. Make sure you try everything you can before you do anything drastic and terminate the friendship or the roommate status. If you choose to go your separate ways, do a full interview with any future roommates and set your expectations from the beginning.